We learned something very enlightening about the French the other night while dining with blogger, Corey Amaro, at the loveliest of old bistros in Paris, Jospehine Chez Dumonet, on Wednesday evening.
Some of you may have heard me talk about Corey's blog, Tongue In Cheek (see link under Blog Amour page on this site) which she began writing 8 years ago on a whim (and a bet from friend), and today, has over 5,000 readers every day.
Corey, an American & California native, married her "French husband" 25 years ago and has lived in Provence ever since. Her blog combines rich poetic descriptions of her life in France along with her love for searching the brocantes (French antique/flea markets) for treasures which she offers for sale through her site.
I was immediately drawn to her powerful and often personal insights on life to her readers, and reached out to her. I'm so thankful I did.
Corey explained to us that when the French dine, they consider this a "moment", a special time for friends and family to gather, share a good meal and conversation. That's one reason service in France may seem slow. It has nothing to do with inattentive or rude service, it's that the French simply don't want you to feel rushed and respect your time dining as if it were an event, a celebration of life if you will. And it sort of should be this way, if you think about it.
We Americans often eat alone or rush through our meals to get onto something more important. Here, a meal is a time to cherish those you are with,unplug, appreciate the fine food set before you, the wine poured in your glass and the efforts of the Chefs and waiters serving you. In the traditional bistros and fine dining establishments, great pride is taken by these true professionals who often have an investment in the restaurant, but also understand the importance of creating a special meal, an experience, a moment for their customers that fosters goodwill and a loyal clientele.
Our evening with Corey was more than a moment, it was one of those rare life events we will remember fondly forever. Corey is both an amazing writer and an engaging storyteller. The girls hung on her every word, her facial expressions warm and animated, and listened intently to her stories. Afterwards, they both agreed, "She was really cool!"
We look forward to possibly seeing Corey again in Provence.
Here are a few photos reflecting on the past few days and the many incredible "moments" we've shared as a family. I hope you enjoy them, too!